When hosting your wedding, the bride and groom should remember that they are paying a photographer to capture their days and not their extend families memories. That hour that we have to photograph you at your special day should be cherished and enjoyed by you and the bridal party. Have your guest enjoy the cocktail hour and you enjoy yours. The photographer is well aware that there are many people w/Iphones, DLSR cameras and other devices. When a guest becomes overbearing and in the photographers way, they may be escorted from the cocktail hour and no one wants that. You paid so much for your special day and did not hire one of your guests or bridal party to photograph the event, so tell them to have a seat and relax. Just because they own a "piece of equipment" does not mean they should be taking the "shots" and getting in the way and holding up the process!